Thursday, February 13, 2014

The edge of doom

Last year I was trying hard to avoid the Kroger Valentine Tent of Shame and came up with what I thought was a creative, kid-like, construction paper idea.
 
This is the valentines that I gave to Jill last year.  
The red glitter indicates the various surgeries that I've had over the past few years.  I put the extra effort out to label the various scars as you can see with the silver pen.  I spared no expense. 
 
Here is the inside of the valentine -
shamelessly trying to score points.
 Somehow the humor was lost in cardio-translation.
 
I wonder if the tent is still open?
 
Well, I have to take advantage of the convergence of
Friday and the 14th
 by passing along the following.
 

SONNET 116

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no; it is an ever-fixed mark,
That looks on tempests, and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
   If this be error and upon me proved,
   I never writ, nor no man ever loved.
 
W. Shakespeare
 
And here is how I came to be aware of the 116th Sonnet:
 
Vanitas vanitatum omnia vanitas

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Candle Power

Last January I posted my first 'favorite pictures of the year' entry.  For no other reason than having a good excuse to flip through last year's memories, here is a collection of some of my selections from 2013. Twenty-thirteen didn't have blockbuster excursions as the year before, but some nice pictures came out mainly due to the sheer number of the pictures taken.

The first picture is from the Smooth Criminal dance my daughter Alex's team performed.  I really liked this frozen in time moment.  They girls look like they are levitating above the stage.  Alex is the one just to the right of the sign and she is looking to the right.

Smooth Criminal - Premier Dance Team - FDF
The next picture comes courtesy of the fourth of July and the vantage point of the patio roof top of Randy's Steakhouse.  This picture illustrates the the power of cropping the original picture.  The result is the very top of the grand finale.

Fourth of July coming to a bright close
While the next picture isn't incredible exciting I selected this picture since I was trying get the picture of the little red finch with a shallow depth of field so the background would be out of focus.  Out of all of the pictures I snapped at Williamsburg, this is the one that I've selected to share.  This pictures was taken along the moss covered wall that surrounds the Capitol.  I was pretty happy that I was able to pull off this snapshot, now if I could only remember how to do it again.

Red finch in artsy shot
The next picture was actually taken by Jill as she was trying out her new Nikon.  I really love this picture taken during the December Dallas Ice-a-gedin.  The picture is from the backyard looking back through the crate myrtles to the patio with the lights hanging off the pergola.  The picture seems to invite you into the very middle of the picture.

Light the way home - Photo:  Jill Steele

The next two pictures are linked together in purpose.  The first is more of a cheap parlor photography trick taking advantage of the collection of votives being prepared for Christmas Eve luminary display.  I like the picture for the geometric symmetry that it delivers making the middle seem to bulge out from the rest.

wait, let me take a picture before we bag'em

The second picture is the culmination of an idea I've had for the past ten years.  I've wanted to line the meandering sidewalk across the street from the house with luminaries for years.  The sidewalk runs along the canal and provides a great chance to provide a Christmas candle powered gift to all that might drive by.  Some years we were out of town and other years the north Texas winds were just not fire friendly enough. This year however the stars aligned and with the help of my three home bound assistants, we lit 80 luminaries on Christmas eve. This picture just captures about a third of the luminaries that were placed.  It was fun watching cars turn onto the street and suddenly slow down and pass by the whole length of the display very slowly.  I was lighting the last of the candles at one end when a car at the other end stopped and thanked Jill for this 'magical display'.   Gift mission accomplished. 

Candle light magic on the 24th
I've saved my favorite picture for last again this year.   After many years of working towards a new, formal church, our congregation dedicated our new St. Francis of Assisi this past December.  One advantage of being the current parish council chair was being able to get into the church the days before the dedication for a picture shoot.  I had already taken many pictures, most of the grandness of the church and the symmetry of it's interior.  I was just about to pack up and leave when the stain glass window of Our Lady of Sorrows caught my eye.  While the whole window is beautiful, I was really taken by her face and the way the light was coming through the glass at that moment.

Our Lady of Sorrows - St France of Assisi
I hope you have enjoyed this year's version of 'look what happened last year'.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Das Boots

I received one of the best Christmas presents that I could have received.  Ok, truth be told, I bought the gift myself over Thanksgiving, but the sentiment was there.  During the latest trip to the Burgh I journeyed to the REI store determined to replace my boots from 1995.   After looking around and staring at the boot display and getting over the sticker shock I found a pair that spoke to me on a front display table.  After slipping them on and trying out the pho-rock in the store the sales guy asked if he could help me.  Like a kid getting a new toy, “I’ll take these in a nine.” I said and the reply was ‘you’re wearing my only 9’,  to that I said, ‘I’ll wear these out the door then’, lifting one foot to emphasis the point.

Franze Joseph Glacier, NZ
This pair of boots has some pretty big shoes to fill.  The last pair lasted 18 years and countless miles around this big blue marble.  It all started with a friend I’ve known since elementary school saying he was going to New Zealand and wanted to know if I wanted to tag along.   New Zealand had long been on my bucket list, even before the term was even coined by Hollywood.  Something about standing on the opposite side of the planet has always intrigued me.   To get ready for the trip I took the first steps and made it to my local REI store.  Just walking into that store puts me in a good mood.  I ponied upped and bought a good pair of Timberland boots.   Paying for a good pair of boots was heartburn for me given my frugal nature, but it’s an investment that has gone way past protecting my ten toes.  These boots were in actuality a ticket to adventures in locations far and wide.

While in New Zealand we navigated the two islands seeing much of the landscape that is spectacular when not blanketed by the long-white-cloud.   While I didn’t bungee jump off of Skippers Bridge, my boots and I managed to get off the beat and path, tramping at the base of Mt Cook, spelunking through the Waitomo Haggas Honking Holes,  jet boating up the Shotover Canyon and hiking on the Franze Joseph glacier.   The mammoth scale of the glacier was a deep blue impressive experience.  That is the guide in the red jacket and shorts.  Never mess with a guide holding a ice axe which she is using to cut the steps you are going to use to traverse the glacier. 
Walter's Wiggles Zion NP (view from top)

My boots and I followed up the kiwi trip with a hike around the national parks of the southwest the following year.   I remember getting back home from the trip and seeing the layers of dust on my boots and smiling since the dirt reminded me of all of the switchbacks I had traveled.  The boots made it up the nearly vertical climb of Walter Wiggles hike in Zion NP and then made a full-moon, midnight hike into Bryce Canyon.  

South Kaibab Trail, Grand Canyon NP
Bryce Canyon with it’s crystal clear air and a full moon made the hoodoo landscape seem like another planet.   If you believe in foreshadowing, it was at the visitors center waiting to sign up for the ranger led night hike that I met a couple and their two daughters hitting the national parks for adventures.  I was so impressed that they had set out across the country with no agenda or time table other than the date they had to be back home.   The trip ended with a hike to Phantom Ranch on the floor of the Grand Canyon.  Here is a picture of me on the South Kaibab trail descending into the canyon.  You do more smiling going down than on the reverse trip.  My boots got a rest at bottom as I took them off to cool my feet in the Bright Angel Creek since it was 105 in the shade down there.   The canyon is a fantastic place to feel small.

Cascade Trail, Grand Teton NP
My three year tri-fecta of great trips was topped off with my first visit to the Grand Tetons, Yellowstone and Glacier national parks.  The Tetons are my favorite place on the planet.   Seeing the sunrise against the mountains defines purple mountains majesty in a real life watercolor that lasts a fleeting 15 minutes.  My boots and I made it to lake Solitude, an alpine lake at the top of the Cascade Trail, a hike that spanned 8am to 6pm and a 150 bpm heart rate.   

A perfect way to kick back and take a load off is found on the porch of Roosevelt Lodge in northern Yellowstone.   Built a hundred years ago as celebration to Roosevelt’s visits to the park, the front porch has dozens of rocking chairs where people from around the world sit and rock and share stories of the day and the wildlife they encountered.  Here is a picture of my boots and my brother-in-law and I kicking back at the lodge enjoying a Moose Drool libation. 

Boots up and end of the day spirits, Roosevelt Lodge YNP


On our first anniversary trip, Jill and I went to western Canada.  I was sure to remembered my boots, but forgot my jacket at home.   I’m not a smart man.  We drove north and went on the Columbia Ice field in the Jasper NP.   After trekking around the glacier and up and down other trails, Jill suggested that I take a day and relax playing a round of golf at the Banff Springs resort.  When I asked what she would do while I was golfing she sheepishly said, “I thought I’d spend a little time at the spa.”   By the way, when you hit a drive that ends up 10 yards from a bull elk, that is where your ball stays on that hole.    

Hitchin' a ride, YNP
After a number of years went by, I was so excited to share my Teton and Yellowstone adventures with my girls.  The rule on that trip was the DVD players had to be put away anytime inside a park.  I think moving forward the rule will be expanded to cell phones.  There are so many connections to make in the world and none of them include little rectangles, apps and ear buds.  The same pair of boots made this family trip, but on this go around sometimes the boots had to carry two of us.   Here Sarah gets a ride on the path near the Upper Falls of Yellowstone.

After visiting the other side of the planet and hiking through a dozen or so national parks, my boots circa 1995 had given their all.  Their final act was tramping through Pine Cove camp as a chaperon for my daughter’s fifth grade trip.   The soles long worn smooth and now pulling apart from the rest of the boot, they had no more adventures in them.   

So on to my new boots.  The salesman at REI was impressed by the tattered and well worn membership card as I checked out.  I left the store with a huge smile knowing that I hadn’t just bought new pair of boots, but I had really purchased set of foot passports for many trips to go on.

Adventures come in many forms and sometimes can even be discovered in a snow covered backyard.  Here is the first adventure of the new boots, sled riding with Sarah at my sister’s place over Thanksgiving vacation.

Approaching land speed record for flexible fliers

I hope you find a sturdy set of boots and let them lead you to great memories.

For my daughters – “No, flip flops are not boots!’

Thursday, December 19, 2013

Bon Hiver

Beautiful Snow
 Oh! The snow, the beautiful snow,
Filling the sky and the earth below,
Over the housetops, over the street,
Over the heads of people you meet.
Dancing, 
         Flirting, 
                Skimming along,

Beautiful snow! It can do no wrong;
Flying to kiss a fair lady's cheek,
Clinging to lips in frolicksome freak;
Beautiful snow from heaven above,
Pure as an angel, gentle as love!


Oh, the snow, the beautiful snow,
How the flakes gather and laugh as they go
Whirling about in maddening fun:
Chasing, 
        Laughing, 
                Hurrying by.


It lights on the face and it sparkles the eye;
And the dogs with a bark and a bound
Snap at the crystals as they eddy around;
The town is alive, and its heart is aglow,
To welcome the coming of beautiful snow. . . .


                                             By J.W. Watson

I cut off the poem at the airy and lite part of the story.  For the complete version that travels into darkness and despair followed by personal redemption, go to the following link.  Crafted around the time of the Civil War, the full poem is masterful. 


Complimenting this poem is the following blog post with amazing pictures of individual snow flake crystals – two are never the same.  The pictures are incredible, especially from a duck tapped collection of parts that comprise the camera.  You have to scroll a little to get to the snowflake pictures but it is well worth it.


Finally, here is how I was introduced to the Beautiful Snow poem through the TV show Northern Exposure.  Enjoy, it frames out the coming of winter which occurs this Saturday evening.  The darkest evening of the year.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lygv4IAZPKc

Bon hiver one and all.


Thursday, October 10, 2013

U Rrrrrrrrr off the hook

I had to wait 21 years to write this Friday’s note.

With all due respect to Franklin Pierce Adams, “Tinker to Evers to Chance”, are not the saddest of possible words. For Pirate fans, the saddest words are, ‘Where were you when Sid slid?’ There are a number of key life experiences that are tied back to the question of ‘where were you when?’ In the burgh’s sports lore one of those is, ‘where were you when Sid slid?’ a simple question that evokes as much pain as 20 years of futility can hold. Like a giant sponge soaked with losing to the point that it spills over into the river that runs by the ballpark, the Pirates could hold no more losing.

‘Where were you when Sid slid?’ was as much an accusatory statement as a question directed towards the former Pirates left fielder who’s throw up the first base line couldn't get the slowest runner in baseball at the plate in the fall of ‘92. In the early 2000s, I remember seeing a kid in the stands with a huge sign behind Bonds in left field asking this question. Obviously the pain had been passed down to the next generation and the years of losing overflowed reaching the saturation point.

To provide a perspective of the losing streak, here is a picture of my youngest niece the year the losing started.  Out of frustration and mostly good nature ribbing, I had placed blame for the ‘curse of the Sid slid’ on Ann.  I know it's a lot to put on a child, but the blame had to go somewhere.  Year after year I reminder her the Pirates losing record was her fault.

Certainly the losing streak couldn't extend to 21 years. Twenty-one is a sacred number in Pittsburgh. Reserved with reverence for the Great One. So concerned about the streak extending past 20 years, the Clemente family met with the Pirates Manager during spring training of this year to emphasis the importance of ending the streak.

This past summer we visited my family and lucked out to be there for the biggest series of the past two decades as they had a five game set with the Cardinals. We attended the first game with a ruckus crowd and in a position to see the boats navigate the Allegheny, the action on the field and the skyline that stands guard over the park. A man sat next to me with his 4 year old daughter and he was very excited because they had driven in from Coraopolis – a town about an hour away and this was her first game. After helping to take a picture of them I said, “We drove 1200 miles to come to this game!”. He said, "No way". I reached back to my wallet, pulled out my Texas drivers license showing him. “That is so cool! Wow” he said in disbelief. I left out the bit about also visiting the family since that may have subtracted from the perception of driving for just the game. Sitting in the all you can eat section made celebrating the first of four consecutive wins against the redbirds all that more sweet.

As this summer went on the team guaranteed itself a winning record, but came up short of winning the division as St Louis got September hot. The Pirates were able to capture home field for the one game wild card playoff against the Reds. It brought back memories since I had attended the NLCS clinching game in ’79 against the same Reds. That era of the ‘We are Family’ team with Pops and his windmill windup.  I could do a great imitation of that batting tradition with a wiffleball bat. The Pirates and Red franchises are rather familiar with each other. After all, these two teams have been playing against each other since 1882.

They turned the Clemente bridge into a footbridge at the start of the wild card game day and the city basically had an unofficial build up party leading to the game. People found excuses to attend the game or even just to be around the event.  One parent sent an excuse to school pulling their first grader out early and the note read, “Brandon has Bucco fever, we have an appointment with Dr McCutchen".  For the wild care game, the stands were packed an hour before the first pitch and the noise was so loud during the Red’s batting practice they couldn't hear each other down on the field.  Everyone knew this wasn't normal. This wasn't a typically day or night. A call had gone out for everyone to wear black and bring their Jolly Rogers (skull and cross bones flag). As the game got off to a fast start with a deep Pirate home run – the play by play analyst commented, ‘Now I know what 20 years of frustration looks like dressed in black.’ The noise simply didn’t stop for nine innings, just sometimes it got louder.

The irony of TBS being the network to televise the Pirates return to winning playoff baseball was a beautiful thing.

Grilli released the last fastball, the Jolly Roger was hoisted on the center field flagpole and fireworks lit up the Clemente bridge.

I then sent a simple text to Ann who is now a senior in college, ‘U Rrrrrrrrrr off the hook’.

The reply

“Finally!”

Well the Division Series certainly didn't go as desired, but for that one night on the north shore of the Allegheny, that one night all was right.  "How can you not be romantic about baseball?" Billy Beane (Brad Pitt) Moneyball

Thursday, June 27, 2013

We're not last

There are some moments that are just so pure. Pure in their joy or pure in the sorrow, pure in their surprise or pure in their truth. They don’t come along all that often and they typically don’t come with a photographer at the ready. But when they come they leave an impression.

This weekend a wave of moments occurred and I was fortunate enough to have box seats for the unexpected.

My girls were at the final dance competition of the year. The Dance Showcase USA national competition. For those of you new to the rough and tumble world of competitive dance, there are basically two halves to the event. The first stage of the event you could consider the ‘regular season’ where the teams in each category perform and the judges grade the dances and rank them.

Grades in dance are a little different than the rest of the world with terms like silver, gold, elite gold, platinum, elite platinum. A grade of silver is the judges way of saying you might want to take up bowling. In addition to the grade classification, the performances are ranked with the top five dances in each category making it to the Showcase (the playoffs).

To understand the back story of this past weekend a little explanation of the most recent 24 month history is needed. Flash back two years ago and the teams from our studio were not scoring well and didn’t even attempt to attend the nationals competition. This led to an exodus of many dancers looking for the plie promise land among one of the many other studios in our area. From my discussion with friends in select softball and soccer such an exodus isn’t unique to dance.

That left our teams smaller, but we believed in the instructors who were put in place and the determination the girls showed. That led the team to attending the nationals event last year and having a few dances qualify for the Showcase (playoffs), but finishing 5th, 5th and 3rd. The highlight of last year was when the results of the last dance were announced and the 5th place was named and it wasn’t our team the captain turned to her team members with a big smile and said, ‘we're not last!’

Fast forward to this past weekend and four dances from our studio qualified for the finals.

The first of the finals to be announced were for our Mini team. Mini is both the name of the team as well as a description of their physical stature. They had qualified 5th with their Candy Shop dance. One by one, fifth, fourth and third were announced and it wasn’t our team. Then they announced second place and that wasn’t us either. At the same time myself and one of the mothers said, ‘holy #*^T, they won!’. I looked over and our two instructors had sprung up like giant springs had launched them from their chairs. The Mini team was awarded a trophy that was a two feet taller than all of the dancers. They could use the red bespeckeled behemoth as a jungle gym.

Then came time for our Premier team. They had weathered the storm of team mates leaving years before and worked hard to take leaps forward in their skill and synchronicity. They were up against very quality routines and their dance titled ‘Why’ hadn’t exactly wowed the judges all season. There they stood hand in hand as the announcer named the fifth and fourth places. They were now assured at least third place – highest they would have had to date. Then the third place team was named and it wasn’t them. They now held each other’s hand tighter and the ability to stand still escaped them. Our team and the other team were side by side as the announcer called the other teams name for second place.

The following is the snapshot of the pure moment that occurred with that announcement.

                                         Photo by Randy Burks
Their expressions are that of utter shock, stunning disbelief and exuberant joy all in one. It was as pure a moment as can be. A moment that did a whole lot to erase the disappointments of the past, while making the investment in time, effort and dedication to their instructors all worth it. In twenty-four short months they had turned it all around.
                                         Photo by Randy Burks

The awards continued with the studio wide ballet number receiving a special choreography award and first place overall. That first place award spanned even more dancers from the studio, including both of my daughters on that team. The final Showcase tally was three first places and a third.

Here is the video of ‘Why’ – Alex starts on the far right facing the crowd and half way through comes from the left to center stage for her solo turns.

Why - http://youtu.be/alXGd7AGRBw

Here is the video for ‘Waltz of the garlands’ – a traditional ballet. Sarah starts on the front left – she is the vertically challenged one. Alex starts in the back right – she is not vertically challenged.

Waltz of the garlands - http://youtu.be/3v4XccnQLZ4

Just a little warning. If you take a few big ass trophies to Buca DiBeppo for a celebration dinner, there is only about a 1.5 inch clearance between the trophies on the table and the ceiling.

Thursday, April 25, 2013

Sandwich NEW, with Lettuce

This F-Note provides three views of off beat artwork. The first is a recycle of a previous Friday’s Note that highlighted the Light Sculpture made during the TV show Northern Exposure. The whole episode was filled with slight references to light – many of which I didn’t catch until my sixth or seventh viewing, then the references switched on.

Northern Exposure Light Sculpture

http://fridaysnote.blogspot.com/search?updated-min=2007-01-01T00:00:00-08:00&updated-max=2008-01-01T00:00:00-08:00&max-results=2

The next is a F-Note rehash which highlighted the natural artwork of Andy Goldsworthy. I first came across his work while watching Sunday Morning. I’m rather grateful to my 8th grade teacher who suggested that I should watch that show which is filled with presentations of books, music, stories and art, often each a little different than the traditional approaches. The Sunday Morning episode covering Goldsworthy was him making a sculpture with twigs that I can best described as a large dream catcher like archway only to have a breeze come along a couple of hours into the process and transform his work into pick up sticks.

Andy Goldsworthy Art

http://fridaysnote.blogspot.com/search?updated-min=2008-01-01T00:00:00-08:00&updated-max=2009-01-01T00:00:00-08:00&max-results=3

Finally, new to this edition of Friday’s Note is the story of a lunch bag Michael Angelo.

David Laferriere has made me jealous with such a beautifuly simple way of bringing daily art work to an imaginative canvas in his kids lunch box each day. Of course being a graphic artist doesn’t hurt his efforts. I hope you enjoy this latest off beat collection of art. Enjoy the flicker moment video that introduces you to David and highlights of his sandwich bag masterpieces.

Sandwich Bag Art

Flicker Moment: http://blog.flickr.net/en/2013/04/19/dad-illustrates-kids-sandwich-bags-with-imaginative-drawings/

The inventory of his sandwich bag master pieces dating back to 2008 is at the following link.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/dlaferriere/sets/72157605053629580/?page=4