Thursday, December 7, 2017

The Big Guy


It was December 2004.  We had arrived early, very early to the Mall in order to beat the lines.  The kind of planning that new parents do when trying to coordinate seasonal iconic activities with the time of day the kids are most likely to behave.  The strategy had seemingly worked and we were fourth or fifth in line to see Santa. We had arrived so early that guest of honor hadn’t yet made it to his throne.  He was still over at the styling salon where the ladies paid elf like attention to grooming his snow white whiskers.

The wait for Santa was starting to take it's toll on the girls attention span, especially Sarah our 18 month old.  Remember this was the pre elf-on-the-shelf era so there were only so many, ‘you don’t want to be on the bad list’ threats that could be used at the 11th hour.  Well along came Santa and to my surprise Santa ‘worked the crowd’ coming down the line saying hi on his way to his place of honor. 

This giant man, with coal black boots, velvet red pants and broad suspenders over his Santa casualwear playful shirt.  Sarah stood silent, not understanding exactly what was going on.  After Santa passed on down the line Alex leaned in coaching Sarah, ‘Don’t you get it, that’s the guy you have to be nice to!?!

Like many families in this area, we followed this Santa to the various locals that he would visit each season.  Such a wonderful gentle man.  Year after year we added to our collection of pictures with Santa, never missing a year.   One year we did call it close and squeaked in a visit around 3pm on the 24th.  Fifteen years of collecting pictures and saying hi to the nicest man on the planet.  We were sure to make our reservation this year, since Santa was now taking full advantage of technology of the internet and text based scheduling. 

Then we received the notice this week that that Santa had to travel back to the North Pole due to a medical condition.  Days later the note came out that the Big Guy had passed on.   For a person we spent on a few minutes with each year, it was like some pure happiness had been taken away.  Happiness in big, broad suspenders and white whiskers.  Throughout north Texas posts of "RIP Santa" flooded social media.  I'm not sure why, but that didn't sit well with me.  I prefer to think of it as our city has been transformed into Sombertown and Kris Kringle has been temporally delayed by the Winter Warlock.

These are just few of the yearly Christmas pictures we collected over the decade and a half of visiting The Big Guy.  Pictures covering circa 2004 to 2016.